Comments on: You want boo; he wants boo-ty http://www.datinggoddess.com/you-want-boo-he-wants-boo-ty/ Dating over 40 advice by the Dating Goddess™, who dated 101 men after her 20-year marriage ended. Wed, 28 Jul 2010 22:49:54 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Janet http://www.datinggoddess.com/you-want-boo-he-wants-boo-ty/comment-page-1/#comment-2980 Janet Fri, 04 Jul 2008 23:05:27 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1320#comment-2980 I had a similar situation and found out he had someone else, on and off... it was hard for me to believe, really. But it seems they treat us the way we allow them to treat us! If I could re-do my situation, I would have asked that guy if he was also seeing someone else. Maybe he wasn't serious about her at the time, but it became serious. Anyway, I wish I had asked him, as this kind of information isn't offered, normally. I forced his hand, as DG suggested… he didn’t like that, and told me we shouldn’t see each other anymore. So, I found out. I had a similar situation and found out he had someone else, on and off… it was hard for me to believe, really. But it seems they treat us the way we allow them to treat us! If I could re-do my situation, I would have asked that guy if he was also seeing someone else. Maybe he wasn’t serious about her at the time, but it became serious. Anyway, I wish I had asked him, as this kind of information isn’t offered, normally.

I forced his hand, as DG suggested… he didn’t like that, and told me we shouldn’t see each other anymore. So, I found out.

]]> By: elyse http://www.datinggoddess.com/you-want-boo-he-wants-boo-ty/comment-page-1/#comment-2954 elyse Fri, 27 Jun 2008 23:55:19 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1320#comment-2954 I was in a similar situation - and hope yours is different than mine was, though. In my case, he was still on and off with his old girlfriend. The only way to tell is really what DG recommended. You owe it to yourself to 'show not tell' - if he means to take you out as a person, as a girlfriend - he'll be happy to find the time to do it. If not, you have a difficult answer - but you'll know that he is a user, and not just wonder. I was in a similar situation – and hope yours is different than mine was, though. In my case, he was still on and off with his old girlfriend. The only way to tell is really what DG recommended. You owe it to yourself to ‘show not tell’ – if he means to take you out as a person, as a girlfriend – he’ll be happy to find the time to do it. If not, you have a difficult answer – but you’ll know that he is a user, and not just wonder.

]]> By: Loving Annie http://www.datinggoddess.com/you-want-boo-he-wants-boo-ty/comment-page-1/#comment-2953 Loving Annie Fri, 27 Jun 2008 15:37:07 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1320#comment-2953 That is exactly the right way to handle it in order to see the truth. That is exactly the right way to handle it in order to see the truth.

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