Comments on: “Whip appeal” pros and cons http://www.datinggoddess.com/whip-appeal-pros-and-cons/ Dating-over-40 advice by the Dating Goddess™ Fri, 10 Feb 2012 15:48:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: hw http://www.datinggoddess.com/whip-appeal-pros-and-cons/comment-page-1/#comment-3577 hw Fri, 05 Sep 2008 02:45:09 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1344#comment-3577 Now while I'm not someone that is mean at all. If a guy told me he was whipped by me, I'd eventually run all over him and lose respect for him at the same time. I want an equal in a relationship not full control. Now while I’m not someone that is mean at all. If a guy told me he was whipped by me, I’d eventually run all over him and lose respect for him at the same time. I want an equal in a relationship not full control.

]]> By: Bee http://www.datinggoddess.com/whip-appeal-pros-and-cons/comment-page-1/#comment-3540 Bee Tue, 02 Sep 2008 10:45:14 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1344#comment-3540 My last relationship lasted a year and we finally ended it.... me realizing he needed a woman to be in command. He wanted and needed to feel whipped. I should have listened because, somewhere during the relationship, he even SAID I was too nice, he needed to feel challenged. I feel better now and realize the fellow needed a woman who was more controlling than I am. This man was more into games of who is in charge. I dont play that.....And for me, I am glad to know... I am too nice! My last relationship lasted a year and we finally ended it…. me realizing he needed a woman to be in command. He wanted and needed to feel whipped. I should have listened because, somewhere during the relationship, he even SAID I was too nice, he needed to feel challenged.

I feel better now and realize the fellow needed a woman who was more controlling than I am. This man was more into games of who is in charge. I dont play that…..And for me, I am glad to know… I am too nice!

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