http://www.datinggoddess.com/sometimes-persistence-pays-off/ Thu, 08 Jan 2009 22:56:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://www.datinggoddess.com/sometimes-persistence-pays-off/comment-page-1/#comment-2408 Dating Goddess Wed, 29 Nov 2006 17:22:29 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1140#comment-2408 Yes, you are right Elena. I find it interesting that people (men) say one thing, "I don't want to leave. I want to stay with you," then send a "have a nice life email" a few days later. I work to be consistent and congruent. But then I realize my actions may seem incongruent to some. I realize we all change our minds or our feelings change about someone, so our actions change which looks inconsistent if you haven't communicated what's going on. I think that's the key. Yes, you are right Elena. I find it interesting that people (men) say one thing, “I don’t want to leave. I want to stay with you,” then send a “have a nice life email” a few days later.
I work to be consistent and congruent. But then I realize my actions may seem incongruent to some. I realize we all change our minds or our feelings change about someone, so our actions change which looks inconsistent if you haven’t communicated what’s going on. I think that’s the key.

]]> http://www.datinggoddess.com/sometimes-persistence-pays-off/comment-page-1/#comment-2409 Elena Wed, 29 Nov 2006 14:32:45 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=1140#comment-2409 Yes, persistence pays off but consistency and reciprocity are so much better. Beats me why being consistent is so difficult for some people. Yes, persistence pays off but consistency and reciprocity are so much better. Beats me why being consistent is so difficult for some people.

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