Comments on: Paranoid or observant? http://www.datinggoddess.com/paranoid-or-observant/ Fri, 09 Jan 2009 00:11:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Dating Goddess http://www.datinggoddess.com/paranoid-or-observant/comment-page-1/#comment-1852 Dating Goddess Tue, 13 Nov 2007 16:54:10 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=761#comment-1852 Sharon: I know what you're saying. However, I've also heard men -- including the current Prince Considerate -- say it's nice to receive a phone call periodically. PC said it was nice to know *I* was thinking of him once in a while. So I don't believe the woman should do the majority of contact, if you've been seeing each other for more than a few weeks, I think it is perfectly fine to contact him. And yes, you're right about trusting your gut, but even my gut has been confused sometimes! Sharon: I know what you’re saying. However, I’ve also heard men — including the current Prince Considerate — say it’s nice to receive a phone call periodically. PC said it was nice to know *I* was thinking of him once in a while.

So I don’t believe the woman should do the majority of contact, if you’ve been seeing each other for more than a few weeks, I think it is perfectly fine to contact him.

And yes, you’re right about trusting your gut, but even my gut has been confused sometimes!

]]> By: nysharon http://www.datinggoddess.com/paranoid-or-observant/comment-page-1/#comment-1851 nysharon Tue, 13 Nov 2007 16:45:57 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=761#comment-1851 Good one. However--*You contact him on those days, and he seems glad to hear from you*. Although it is very hard, I think it best not to contact him and let him have his space. Let him miss you and go about your business. Do not push things and at some point you will know for sure. If days go by or contacts keep declining, you may then ask for his honesty and a "what's up?--are you busy or are you seeing someone else/losing interest?". You do get paranoid after a while but it's the old trust your gut thing. Good one. However–*You contact him on those days, and he seems glad to hear from you*. Although it is very hard, I think it best not to contact him and let him have his space. Let him miss you and go about your business. Do not push things and at some point you will know for sure. If days go by or contacts keep declining, you may then ask for his honesty and a “what’s up?–are you busy or are you seeing someone else/losing interest?”. You do get paranoid after a while but it’s the old trust your gut thing.

]]> By: Ally http://www.datinggoddess.com/paranoid-or-observant/comment-page-1/#comment-1850 Ally Tue, 13 Nov 2007 16:35:14 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=761#comment-1850 yeah... yeah…

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