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	<title>Comments on: Midlife dating is like garage sale shopping</title>
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		<title>By: bookyone</title>
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		<dc:creator>bookyone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jun 2007 12:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi DG,

"Of course, in every garage sale there are those items that no one can find a need or desire for."

That would be me.  :(  While I enjoyed this article immensely, that bit made me sad.  Once upon a time I used to call myself an unclaimed treasure, (as at 40 I've never been married, let alone had anyone even take me seriously as a potential marriage partner), but now I'm finally starting to realize that there are some treasures in this world that are mothballed for a reason, the reason being that nobody ever wanted to claim them and fix them up.  Sometimes I truly believe it's wiser not to try at all than to keep getting washed up on the shores of  Singles Harbor, alone yet again, and my heart that much more battered and weatherbeaten for each passing storm.

Best wishes from bookyone :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi DG,</p>
<p>&#8220;Of course, in every garage sale there are those items that no one can find a need or desire for.&#8221;</p>
<p>That would be me.  <img src='http://www.datinggoddess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />  While I enjoyed this article immensely, that bit made me sad.  Once upon a time I used to call myself an unclaimed treasure, (as at 40 I&#8217;ve never been married, let alone had anyone even take me seriously as a potential marriage partner), but now I&#8217;m finally starting to realize that there are some treasures in this world that are mothballed for a reason, the reason being that nobody ever wanted to claim them and fix them up.  Sometimes I truly believe it&#8217;s wiser not to try at all than to keep getting washed up on the shores of  Singles Harbor, alone yet again, and my heart that much more battered and weatherbeaten for each passing storm.</p>
<p>Best wishes from bookyone <img src='http://www.datinggoddess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jun 2007 23:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don't know that this is an apt metaphor, as in selling, rarely does the seller decide the suitability of the buyer.  The seller at a yard sale or Christie's, will sell to the highest bidder or at the offering price.  They don't care who's buying.

Dating is likely more like bartering; I decide whether what you're offering is worth what I have to trade, and vice-versa.  And what is that quote?:  You know a fair deal when both sides walk away dissatisfied, feeling like they could have done better in the deal ?  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know that this is an apt metaphor, as in selling, rarely does the seller decide the suitability of the buyer.  The seller at a yard sale or Christie&#8217;s, will sell to the highest bidder or at the offering price.  They don&#8217;t care who&#8217;s buying.</p>
<p>Dating is likely more like bartering; I decide whether what you&#8217;re offering is worth what I have to trade, and vice-versa.  And what is that quote?:  You know a fair deal when both sides walk away dissatisfied, feeling like they could have done better in the deal ?  <img src='http://www.datinggoddess.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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