Comments on: How to say “thanks but no thanks” to online winks, flirts and teases http://www.datinggoddess.com/how-to-say-thanks-but-no-thanks-to-online-winks-flirts-and-teases/ Thu, 08 Jan 2009 22:53:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Dating Goddess http://www.datinggoddess.com/how-to-say-thanks-but-no-thanks-to-online-winks-flirts-and-teases/comment-page-1/#comment-1953 Dating Goddess Wed, 23 May 2007 22:16:15 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=818#comment-1953 Dee: Interesting! Says a lot about the guy that he blasts you for what I'm assuming was a polite email from you. Do we think he might have some unresolved issues? Duh! Did you use the model above? DG Dee:

Interesting! Says a lot about the guy that he blasts you for what I’m assuming was a polite email from you. Do we think he might have some unresolved issues? Duh!

Did you use the model above?

DG

]]> By: Dee http://www.datinggoddess.com/how-to-say-thanks-but-no-thanks-to-online-winks-flirts-and-teases/comment-page-1/#comment-1952 Dee Wed, 23 May 2007 22:08:22 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=818#comment-1952 I responded politely with a "thanks, but no thanks" email and was blasted by the guy. He said it was better to not respond at all than to reject outright. He said it takes a lot of courage even online to put himself out there and would rather not read a rejection email. I responded politely with a “thanks, but no thanks” email and was blasted by the guy. He said it was better to not respond at all than to reject outright. He said it takes a lot of courage even online to put himself out there and would rather not read a rejection email.

]]> By: Should you respond to someone about whom you're ambivalent? « Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 http://www.datinggoddess.com/how-to-say-thanks-but-no-thanks-to-online-winks-flirts-and-teases/comment-page-1/#comment-1951 Should you respond to someone about whom you're ambivalent? « Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 Wed, 09 May 2007 17:40:23 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=818#comment-1951 [...] is a borderline deal breaker. You vacillate whether to respond with your nice boilerplate “Thanks but no thanks” email, or to encourage more [...] [...] is a borderline deal breaker. You vacillate whether to respond with your nice boilerplate “Thanks but no thanks” email, or to encourage more [...]

]]> By: “I only want to date someone I would marry” « Adventures in Dating After 40 http://www.datinggoddess.com/how-to-say-thanks-but-no-thanks-to-online-winks-flirts-and-teases/comment-page-1/#comment-1950 “I only want to date someone I would marry” « Adventures in Dating After 40 Tue, 17 Oct 2006 07:08:34 +0000 http://www.datinggoddess.com/?p=818#comment-1950 [...] In fact, I’ve gone out with men who were a nanosecond away from receiving my “Thanks, but no thanks” message, but something compelled me to write a more thoughtful note. If he responded positively with why he thought we could be a good match, I might be convinced to continue the correspondence, perhaps progressing to a phone call and maybe an eventual date. Some of these nanosecond-away-from-being-deleted guys have turned out to be treasures as pals. [...] [...] In fact, I’ve gone out with men who were a nanosecond away from receiving my “Thanks, but no thanks” message, but something compelled me to write a more thoughtful note. If he responded positively with why he thought we could be a good match, I might be convinced to continue the correspondence, perhaps progressing to a phone call and maybe an eventual date. Some of these nanosecond-away-from-being-deleted guys have turned out to be treasures as pals. [...]

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