Read some sexy magazines or books, or watch dvd’s to stimulate those latent or dormant desires and that part of your brain that likes sex so when you do meet Mr Possible, your mind is on track and you can help this along and get an advantage with some pheromone perfume.

Be yourself….how is someone supposed to like you if your not even being you. Be calm, cool and collected. It is normal for us women to have a man half way down the isle on the first date…..but don’t bloody tell him that! LOL Joke a bit, smile, be polite and don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing. Just because he finds you hot doesn’t mean you have to feel the same….and never ever sleep with a man on the first date…..ever!

I much prefer patterned hose/tights, a flash of color, or some unique accessory to catch my attention. BTW, I’m 31–not sure how much age has to do with my feelings.

Mitsy, try checking out what I said after the word “OR” in my comment.
I didn’t say that it was the only reason.

My quote:
“will cheat with their wives with a fishnet wearing women or a woman that’s just different than their avg wives.”

Maybe the divorce rate in the US isn’t at 50% just for the hell of it.

«Goddess,,,,No rings?? Where have you been all my life? »

I didn’t say my beaus haven’t given me rings — just no engagement ring! And I’ll let you know when I’ll be in TX next and you can drool over my patterned hose.

«Question Goddess: Why do other women hate on woman who may dress provocative

Women tend to be critical of each other. Don’t really know why.

SB: I hate the fact that clothing which shows some flair like fishnets get such a bad rap in the U.S. It’s like anything slightly provocative has to be stripper wear. Fishnets…stripper-ish. Stilettos…Stripper-ish.

Mark: I really dig women who could dress it up in the bedroom also. But for me you gotta look hot well before the bedroom. I love it when I’m with a woman all day and she dressed sexy to me, it makes me more flirty, it keeps the romance going. The whole day I’m just pushing to get in it. lol.

Karen: Don’t get it wrong, a hot pair of Heels will always work. But a hot pair of heels with some patterned hose is pure Kryptonite!!!!

All I know is if I find a woman that’s keeping it sexy for BigDaddy, Oh..I’m putting in some work to keep her happy in the bedroom and out. I’m home every day with my paycheck going straight into her account. No need to hit the bar with the fellas…they ain’t got a damn thing for me! Lol. I’m home doing the dishes….saying, “damn you look too good to be doing the dishes, let me get that”.

Goddess, don’t get me started… No rings?? Where have you been all my life?

Question Goddess: Why do other women hate on woman who may dress provocative (I’m not taking trashy, just sexy showing the curves off)? Usually they have nothing kind to say…Womp…Womp.

As has been mentioned by others, appropriateness is the key. I wouldn’t wear fishnets to church or to meet someone’s boss or mother. But the large window panes are classy and I do wear them in business with the right outfit for the right occasion.

And I wear black-on-black polka dot hose with a flared, knee-length black and white polka-dot skirt. I think it adds just a fun twist that “normal” hose don’t.

This is a pertinent discussion because my mom bought me a pair of black-patterned hose/tights the other day that she thought were “really flattering” and incidentally somewhat expensive – a gift for starting graduate school. I have no idea what to do with these hose – I’ve worn them with a normal-length skirt once and I feel like they look kind of funny. My boyfriend kind of thought they looked a little funny, too. (To be fair to DG, I do think he was intrigued nevertheless…)

I’ve spent the better part of my life trying to hide my legs (pants! pants! pants!); I’m not entirely sure I want to be drawing attention to them now. Especially since I feel that the hose draws attention to my legs at the expense of EVERY other asset I might have .

What should I be wearing with patterned hose? How can I wear them tastefully?

Also, I remember the 1980′s back when it was in style–and I shudder because I tried it then and found that the pattern makes my legs look like thick bridge pylons–not good.

Besides, I’ve always found that it’s the heels, not the hose, that men like. So I’ll stick to my shoe collection, thanks!

To me fishnet stockings are for dressing up for the bedroom. I don’t recall seeing women wear them out in public. Are they very common? I’m a casual guy so typically the places I hang out at are casual too, so you might see women in skirts, but seldom in dresses, unless it’s summer and they are wearing a sun dress.

A lot of you women wouldn’t like me. I don’t really enjoy getting dressed up.

IMHO: I like the subtle patterns better. Just like the rest of your outfit – A hint of things to come. Backseam stockings – I’m a happy guy.

Confidence is key. You have to be comfortable, almost a “see me” attitude, and you will command the room.

Mike: I’ve been wearing patterned hose and heels since I discovered this little tip, but no engagement ring yet!

Karen: Of course he likes you naked! We’re talking about in public here!

There’s no accounting for different tastes, I suppose.

I must admit it is the sexiest thing me. Guys don’t want to see women out showing the full monte. We’ll look but there’s something way more appealing to us.

Wearing clothes that gives me a peek at the goods…just enough to let my imagination do the rest will drive me crazy!

In a room with 20 pretty women and one of them is wearing fishnets and hot heels, even if she ‘s not the best looking in the face or waist, I’ll stop and take notice that one woman and my eyes will be glued to her.

Hell let me find a woman that can be hot like that on a regular basis and I won’t waste any time. I’ll have to head right down to Robbins Bros for that Engagement Ring!