Comments on: How dating sex is like waffles

By: Kevin

Kevin — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 22:17:26 +0000

You can’t always hit a home run at your first at-bat. You need to really get to know the other person, what her likes and needs are, and try to satisfy them. And sometimes it takes time, and a little effort.

So what if the first time isn’t the greatest, as long as he’s trying and LISTENING to you, and you are really trying to tell him.

By: Mike

Mike — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 16:13:35 +0000

I think people get to hung up on everything should have bells and whistles. Sometimes you get lucky just like the lottery, but it usually happens after some work in getting to know the person.

By: Jack

Jack — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:43:59 +0000

Sex in middle age should be devoid of almost any expectations in my book. Find someone you’re comfortable with and explore the possibilities with patience. It could grow into something wonderful. With all the baggage of past failed marriages and relationships, both parties need to realize it probably won’t be like teenagers in the back seat ever again and for me thats a good thing. And ladies, most middle aged men have experienced or are in the midst of experiencing failure or discontent on some level (thus some of the mid-life craziness) so expectations in the bedroom they can’t meet will just be another blow. Patience please for both partners.

By: bookyone

bookyone — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 18:35:04 +0000

Hi DG,

I LOVE your analogy between first time sex and waffles and it’s so true, (even if I’ve honestly never met a waffle I didn’t enjoy, with or without the whipped cream and strawberries on top)!

Hugs and a Happy 4th weekend from bookyone

By: Elena

Elena — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 13:20:00 +0000

DG, your recent posts have been devoid of personal details. They’ve been either about other people’s situations or you making general observations about relationships.

Are you taking a breather from dating or just keeping the latest about your love life under wraps?