So I asked my mother, who is a marriage and family counselor in CA., “How did that happen, that he wanted to do things and later didn’t?” I stated that I want someone who is more sociable in any future relationships. She said to notice if I’m the only one coming up with ideas to do stuff or if he is too. When she pointed that out I realized that I was the one who always suggested we do what we did. I got tired of always having to come up with the ideas.

But the reason we also stopped doing things together was b\c we were so competitive with each other, that it wan’t fun anymore.

Another things I’ve noticed about online dating profiles is they are so generic. So many list things I like to do, but are they really telling the truth. Going to the park, walking on the beach, going out to dinner, all sound nice, but we all like to do those things at first. How are they in the long run.

I haven’t even gone out with someone from an online service yet b\c I’m too cynical about it all still. But also b\c I’m still kind of leary about it yet.

Just some thoughts…………….

“Well, I’ve always found a nap after chocolate to be quite satisfying…after all when one is satiated with chocolate, there isn’t much else one can do… and I suppose if there was going to be a LOT of chocolate, one might even find it necessary to have a nap before indulging… nothing more disappointing than falling asleep in the middle of chocolately festivities.”

I have to practice what I preach, don’t I?

There is actual FLIRTING happening on a website about dating- and between single people!

Call the Police! Call the Pope! Call it a good thing :-D!

Roller skating to R&B sounds fun! Hard to do in my kitchen, where I usually dance to R&B, but maybe outside on the patio. What do you say? Could you bring your skate key? Want to try it?

We could nap afterwards.