Archive for the 'Who are you and what do you want?' Category

Becoming besotted

Thursday, April 3rd, 2008

Are you easily beguiled? Do you wear your heart on your sleeve? Are you prone to become prematurely smitten?
Or are you more cautious, perhaps bordering on detached, especially early on in dating someone? You keep your heart sheltered for as long as possible? Then you either succumb to being moonstruck or lose interest as there’s [...]

Is he willing to be vulnerable?

Monday, February 25th, 2008

Women typically say they want a guy who is willing to be vulnerable with them, and with whom they can be the same. I’ve dated some men for months who never shared a vulnerable thought, even if I asked about his hopes, fears, dreams and regrets. Nothing.
So I was pleased that a man I’ve been [...]

Has your guy been metro-ed?

Friday, February 22nd, 2008

Metro — as in metrosexual. According to Dictionary.com metrosexual, or metro, describes “a heterosexual male who has a strong aesthetic sense and inordinate interest in appearance and style, similar to that of homosexual males.”UrbanDictionary.com includes the following description: “Mint (great) guys who are SNAGs (Sensitive New Age Guys) and follow the following rules:

dress hot
wear awesome [...]

Yes, it is all about you

Thursday, December 6th, 2007

Yesterday, Price Considerate shared that in a moment of candor one of his mentees disclosed he was first put off by PC, in part because that day PC’s shoes didn’t match his pants. PC explained to him that sometimes he doesn’t pay as much attention to those details as he should, but he [...]

The man-sieve

Saturday, December 1st, 2007

Unless you live in a remote area, there are eligible, age-appropriate single men all around you. You have developed a filter for either attracting them or not, or accepting or rejecting date requests.
Before you began dating you may have said, “I don’t really know what I want, so I’ll go out with anyone who asks.” [...]