Archive for the 'Sex: A Dating Midlife Woman’s Guide' Category

How dating sex is like waffles

Friday, July 4th, 2008

It can be hot, steamy and mouth watering. With a great recipe and tasty condiments, it can be delectable.
But the first time with a new love can also be anemic and unsatisfying. In fact, many midlife daters report the initial romp to be less fulfilling than they hoped. Even with someone with whom they are [...]

He wants to get sexual — online!

Monday, May 12th, 2008

A DG reader writes:
This has happened a few times so am wondering if it is just me, or is common with midlife guys — or just midlife guys on online dating sites. We begin a fun banter via email or IM. I don’t get dirty with them, just playful. Some time passes — anywhere from [...]

Why might a man think you’re a lady of easy virtue?

Friday, January 25th, 2008

While I’m traveling this month, some of my dating/relationship blogger pals have agreed to step in. Today our guest blogger is Jeff Mac, of Manslations fame.

Manslations reader Loiralei, has another of her patented “short, sweet, and potent” reader requests. This time? So….ummm…how soon can we DO IT? She writes:
How many dates should you go on [...]

“I’m not just some girl you met on the Internet”

Sunday, December 30th, 2007

A few weeks ago on “Private Practice” two colleagues decided to take their sexual chemistry to the “friends with benefits” level. However, when in the bedroom ready to commence, she couldn’t go through with it, claiming that sex together would cheapen their relationship.
She exclaims, “I’m not just some girl you met on the Internet.”
In other [...]

When sexual electricity can scorch you

Saturday, December 22nd, 2007

His smile ignites you. His touch sends currents up your spine. His kiss jolts you like you’ve been jump-started.
We dream — nay, fantasize — about this kind of sexual energy.
You are intoxicated by the charged feelings which blow the fuses of any rational thinking. You relish the feeling of the energy coursing through your body. [...]