Archive for the 'Releasing back into the dating pool' Category

Should you take him back?

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008

DG reader AG writes:
I recently dated a guy for a few months but then we had a falling out. We tried to discuss it by email and phone since we were both traveling and we couldn’t meet face-to-face. We set a time in a few days to meet to discuss if we should continue. I [...]

What’s your relationship recovery time?

Friday, May 16th, 2008

“Recovery time” is however long it takes one to return to normal after an event. Whether it’s the time it takes an athlete’s body to return to normal heart rate or hydration after a grueling event, or someone’s return to health after a setback. Or how long it takes for someone to recover after a [...]

He’s broken up with you — he just didn’t tell you

Friday, May 9th, 2008

My guy pals have told me that men are emotional cowards. They’d rather walk barefoot over broken glass than do something that would make a woman cry. Thus their preference for going poof rather than tell you they have changed their mind.
A year ago I was interviewed by the Wall Street Journal for a story [...]

Extricating yourself from a dud date

Thursday, May 8th, 2008

There are good dates, ambivalent dates, bad dates, and sometimes dates that are none of the above, just clearly not encounters with someone who is in any way a match. They can be painful when you, for manners sake, must stay longer than you would prefer.
A while ago, after a few email and phone conversations [...]

“I’m a nerd!”

Wednesday, December 26th, 2007

So said the professor with a Ph.D. and several masters degrees. My Google search revealed a page (not written by him) that called him “a famed professor” in his area of study. Other sites also lauded him. So I thought perhaps he was being modest when saying he was a nerd as he pursued me [...]