Archive for the 'Playing the online dating game' Category

“I’m not just some girl you met on the Internet”

Sunday, December 30th, 2007

A few weeks ago on “Private Practice” two colleagues decided to take their sexual chemistry to the “friends with benefits” level. However, when in the bedroom ready to commence, she couldn’t go through with it, claiming that sex together would cheapen their relationship.
She exclaims, “I’m not just some girl you met on the Internet.”
In other [...]

“I’m a nerd!”

Wednesday, December 26th, 2007

So said the professor with a Ph.D. and several masters degrees. My Google search revealed a page (not written by him) that called him “a famed professor” in his area of study. Other sites also lauded him. So I thought perhaps he was being modest when saying he was a nerd as he pursued me [...]

Yuck!

Friday, December 14th, 2007

I feel soiled, sullied, icky. Bad. Horrible. I unknowingly betrayed a good, long-time friend. “How?” you ask. Here’s the story.
A few months ago a man emailed me from a dating site new to me. We struck up a nice IM conversation. He hadn’t posted a pic, so I asked for one and he promptly obliged. [...]

The power of spelling

Thursday, December 13th, 2007

NYSharon brought it up in a comment the other day. I and others have mentioned it before. During a TV interview about online dating a 50-something single woman said it was a pet peeve.
Spelling.
Or more accurately, misspellings. (Spell check told me that “misspellings” was wrong, but Dictionary.com says it’s okay.)
On one hand, you can say [...]

Are you sending off “ready” vibes?

Saturday, October 27th, 2007

Talking to a single friend about her dating life, she said, “I’m really not ready, but I do have a profile posted.”
“Why do you have a profile posted if you’re not interested in actually dating right now?”
“It puts me in the mood of getting ready.”
“That’s wise. It opens you up to the possibility of dating, [...]