Archive for November, 2007

Thanks for unknown blessings to come

Wednesday, November 21st, 2007

“Give thanks for unknown blessings already on their way.” ~Native American prayer
Since it’s Thanksgiving week here in the US, this quote held significance for not only giving thanks for treasures already in our lives — our families, bounty and life — but also for dating.
One of the fun things about dating is not knowing who [...]

“The Bachelor” mirrors real life

Tuesday, November 20th, 2007

Before you say, “DG, are you crazy? The Bachelor is totally contrived,” hear me out. I’m not saying it’s not artificial, nor that much of it parallels real life. In fact, I admit to only watching 2 episodes this season, and none of any previous season.
I mean having 25 women live in a mansion while [...]

“Men aren’t trained in emotions”

Sunday, November 18th, 2007

Not exactly a news flash.
But since this was uttered by a midlife male pal who I adore, I wanted to hear more on his perspective. He’s been dating about 3 years after his divorce from a long-term marriage. We were talking about why it’s so hard for a man to tell a woman he doesn’t [...]

Giving and receiving emotional support

Friday, November 16th, 2007

“My ex-girlfriend wanted me to support her emotionally, but she didn’t do the same in return,” my sweetie shared.
“Hmm. I’m not sure I’d know the signs that someone was wanting emotional support unless they were crying or upset. What are the signs you want or need emotional support?” I asked.
“Good question. I don’t really know. [...]

Is your guy “spoilable”?

Thursday, November 15th, 2007

We’re usually more concerned with dealing with a man who is spoiled — self-centered, immature, and thoughtless. Ditch those guys immediately.
I’m talking about the opposite — someone who is so other-focused that it is hard for him to receive.
Most of us — at least me — like to be spoiled once in a while. It [...]