Talking to a single friend about her dating life, she said, “I’m really not ready, but I do have a profile posted.”
“Why do you have a profile posted if you’re not interested in actually dating right now?”
“It puts me in the mood of getting ready.”
“That’s wise. It opens you up to the possibility of dating, [...]

An attractive, successful, intelligent, sexy 48-year-old man told me on our first date that he’d only had two other dates in the last 3.5 years. I asked why.
“I’m not attracted to most women.”
This was unusual, as I’d heard that many men are attracted to a lot of women who meet their physical criteria. So I [...]

His French accent was fetching. He laughed immediately which was disarming. We chatted on the phone about life for 20 minutes.
He’d said in his dating site profile that he didn’t do coffee dates. I asked him how he met woman initially if he didn’t meet for coffee. He said he met them for sex.
“What?” I [...]

You met a guy and you seemed to hit it off really well. You saw him a few times. Lots of flirting, which led to hand holding and even kissing. In between seeing each other, some calls. But there were also a lot of unkept promises and missed commitments. There were plausible reasons, [...]

Have you been in (or perhaps are in) a relationship that the other person isn’t as into? It doesn’t have to be a committed relationship, as this can happen even in dating. You are more into him than he is to you. He indicates this by his lack of calling, initiating outings, or verbally giving [...]