Archive for August, 2007

“All I seem to attract are players”

Friday, August 31st, 2007

I discreetly turned to see who made this statement and saw an average-looking, middleaged woman at the table behind me at Starbucks talking to a gal pal about dating. She was wearing a low-cut camisole emphasizing 3 inches of cleavage and black bra straps showing underneath the spaghetti straps.
I made a snap assessment linking her [...]

Guys: Need your help translating

Thursday, August 30th, 2007

Gentleman readers:
On behalf of my women readers, I want to offer my last date as a case study. I need your help translating this message. Yesterday’s posting talked about that date, which by my assessment went well. Not the best first date, but good. Here’s Mr. New Guy’s response to my thank-you email:
Last night was [...]

Flower power

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

If you’ve read Adventures in Delicious Dating After 40 for long, you will know I am an incurable romantic. In fact, my YahooPersonals “love profile” assessment labeled me as “Romantic,” which it describes as:
You want and expect it all —- a lasting connection with someone on every level —- mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual.
You also [...]

Woo-guru tricks

Tuesday, August 28th, 2007

Readers, you know how low I’ll stoop — I mean, diligent I can be — when it comes to researching dating relationships. Well, I won’t stoop to speed dating, but you know I’ve read bad, but popular books, watched 1950’s marital advice films, listened to dating CDs of dubious value, and dated 77 — soon [...]

Acknowledge the good stuff

Monday, August 27th, 2007

In May, I wrote about my friend Mike Robbins’ work using appreciation to deepen relationships at work and home. (See “The power of appreciation in dating.”)

His book, Focus on the Good Stuff: The Power of Appreciation, is finally published, and he’s doing a special drive to get on Amazon’s bestseller list tomorrow. If you buy [...]