Archive for July, 2007

Failed phone audition

Thursday, July 26th, 2007

We’d flirted online a few times many months ago, then stopped. I can’t remember why. We started again last week. Last night he called. This psychology professor included these tidbits in his 45-minute monologue:

He told me in great detail of his recent tooth extraction — his third — and his options for implants or a [...]

“Why Men Leave Home”

Wednesday, July 25th, 2007

Last night I watched the 1951 B-film “Why Men Leave Home.” I found it on the Blockbuster site and was interested to see what messages women were given a half-century ago about beauty and relationships, and how these messages have changed — or not.
The plot in a nutshell: A “dowdy” woman puts housework ahead of [...]

Why men disappear when it gets serious

Tuesday, July 24th, 2007

I’m reading my new best friend Gina Barreca’s book, Perfect Husbands (& Other Fairy Tales): Demystifying Marriage, Men and Romance. Dr. Barreca is an academic who can make all that stuffy research come alive through her gift of humor and insightful writing.
This book tackles understanding the perception of marriage and the evolving roles of [...]

The dating hobby

Monday, July 23rd, 2007

Have you found yourself feeling that dating is a hobby? And just like some hobbies, you do it more or less often than other things you enjoy. I find myself immersing myself in some hobbies, then totally abandoning them for long stretches. And just like belly dancing, scuba diving or parachute jumping, you need specialized [...]

“Are you man enough to be my man?”

Sunday, July 22nd, 2007

This can be a common thought for powerful, successful, midlife dating women. It was expressed by DG reader “Diamond” in a question to me:
I’ve been in business my whole life. A friend’s mother shared this advice just prior to my running off to meet what I thought was the man of my dreams in London. [...]